|Yes, one of those super heroes is wearing an insulin pump|
Much to my surprise, Halloween becomes a bigger deal every year in other parts of the world. My first year outside the US, I completely forgot about it. I was quickly reminded when some children came to knock on my door. They assumed that as an American, I must have had a treat or two waiting.. Sadly, I did not.
Fast forward to Dubai. There is a Fall Festival at my son's school and several sugar laced activities throughout the week. My neighbor and I have thrown a costume party every year for the kids in our neighborhood, and diabetes does not interfere. My son trick-or-treats with his friends as well.
I think the biggest challenge we face at Halloween is stopping to find his pump inside his Halloween costume. This year will be no different since he has a one piece Star Wars character suit. I need a strategy to get that pump out and bolus quickly so he can keep up with his friends running from door to door. Our biggest challenge with diabetes right now - feeling like we are missing something, even if for five seconds.
Many people often ask, "Wow, Halloween must be difficult since he cannot have any candy." They are horrified in a very ghostly, open mouth way when I tell them he can. And I actually give it to him. One of the first things our endocrinologist told us was to not make food forbidden. "You do not want an eating disorder later on", I recall him saying. Teach healthy eating habits. Let him be a kid.
Even if my child was not diabetic, "being a kid" would not mean a candy eating free for all after trick or treating. What this means is we may have a piece of candy or two that night, and then save the rest for later. We bolus for the candy eaten at the time, and then put the rest in the cabinet or share it with others. Everything in moderation.
I like to think our relationship with candy and sweets is pretty good. After that night, my son usually forgets about it and never gives it a second thought. I could easily recycle his candy for the next Halloween. I know this could change over time, but I am still pleased.
However, he is also learning about sweets from a pro. Today I walked into a super market in Dubai, and I found brands of candy I had not seen in years. American "classics" I didn't even think they made anymore. And because of his love of peanut butter, of course I had to introduce him to Reese's Pieces.... forget that I will end up eating more of it than him. And of course it is all in the name of diabetes to save his blood sugar from the candy!
If your child is not at a school that celebrates a Halloween, or Fall Festival, I am sure these feelings could apply to other celebrations. My advice is aim for moderation. Let your child be a kid, and help them make good choices. If you are like me and cave to the occasional, nostalgic sweet, I have yet to find a solution for that one. Please let me know when you do!